The accounts of putting resources into a relationship have consistently been on the table for conversation. There have been a few examples where accomplices out of affection put resources into the schooling or business of their future spouses or wives yet later alter their perspectives.
The issue mostly gets out of hand if one partner attains higher education than the other and later decides to separate with the excuse that they are not on the same level.
According to her narration, the man is not her class anymore and wants someone who is on the same level as her.
She has expressed her appreciation for all the assistance offered to her but cannot marry a truck driver.
A young lady who prefers to remain anonymous is seeking advice from similar circumstances.
According to her narration which was posted in one of the Facebook pages, she was only 14 years old when both parents died.
According to her she met a young man at the age of seventeen. She further narrates that the young man was just a taxi driver on the streets but was able to pay all her school fees.
The man later secured a job as a truck driver and was able to now pay for her university education. The hope was that the two were building a future together.
The lady has now graduated and practicing as a lawyer but she is now in a fix. The young man is still a truck driver but the lady is a lawyer.
“I’m grateful he sent me to school and paid all my school fees but I cannot be in a relationship with him again. I’m looking for someone in the same class with me and not a truck driver. I know that no one should marry for sympathy or to return a favor. Marriage should be about love. I was young when I met him but now I can make my own decisions. Please help me to decide”. She added.